I object to the idea that you have a true face. The human face is made for expression, and you use it as best you can to communicate. Showing stress or fear or vulnerability is in no way more authentic than projecting confidence. In a socially dangerous situation, why not adapt or find your diplomacy? People do not read faces very well anyway. They are checking whether you like or understand them, so give them encouragement. Attention is the currency here.
Sol, your article on the psychology behind role-playing and social masks is really insightful. It's interesting to think about how we all adapt our behavior depending on the context we're in. I particularly resonated with the idea of self-protection—putting on a confident front in stressful situations is something many of us do, often without realizing it. Great read! 🙌💯
Nuezen, thank you for your thoughtful comment! I'm glad you found the article insightful.
It's fascinating how we all adjust our behavior to fit different contexts, often as a form of self-protection. Putting on a confident front in stressful situations is a common way to cope, even if we don't always realize we're doing it.
Tell me, how do you find yourself adapting in different situations? I would say your connection to the topic adds another layer of understanding to the discussion 👀
Sol, thank you for your response! I definitely find myself adapting in different situations. At work, I tend to be more reserved and professional, whereas with close friends, I can be more relaxed and open. It’s interesting to reflect on how these adjustments are often automatic and driven by a desire to fit in or protect ourselves. 🙂
Think I've worn all three of these masks. Nice to know its just human nature ;)
don't scare me like that, Husun 😨
hahahahah
Or maybe it goes much deeper -- maybe pretenders is who we are by the virtue of neural networks powering our minds.
https://open.substack.com/pub/silkfire/p/the-imitation-game
I object to the idea that you have a true face. The human face is made for expression, and you use it as best you can to communicate. Showing stress or fear or vulnerability is in no way more authentic than projecting confidence. In a socially dangerous situation, why not adapt or find your diplomacy? People do not read faces very well anyway. They are checking whether you like or understand them, so give them encouragement. Attention is the currency here.
"Attention is the currency here."
Well said, Patricia! Thank you for your contribution :)
Your example of changing schools resonated with me - I changed mine at 15 and tried to blend in by using slang haha. So relatable :)
Sol, your article on the psychology behind role-playing and social masks is really insightful. It's interesting to think about how we all adapt our behavior depending on the context we're in. I particularly resonated with the idea of self-protection—putting on a confident front in stressful situations is something many of us do, often without realizing it. Great read! 🙌💯
Nuezen, thank you for your thoughtful comment! I'm glad you found the article insightful.
It's fascinating how we all adjust our behavior to fit different contexts, often as a form of self-protection. Putting on a confident front in stressful situations is a common way to cope, even if we don't always realize we're doing it.
Tell me, how do you find yourself adapting in different situations? I would say your connection to the topic adds another layer of understanding to the discussion 👀
Sol, thank you for your response! I definitely find myself adapting in different situations. At work, I tend to be more reserved and professional, whereas with close friends, I can be more relaxed and open. It’s interesting to reflect on how these adjustments are often automatic and driven by a desire to fit in or protect ourselves. 🙂
Love it, thank you for sharing, Neuzen! :)
Insightful